It’s so easy in this fast-paced got-to-do-everything-now world to get off center–to lose focus of what’s important and what’s not. A friend and client shared the following exercise with me a few years ago. I use it regularly as a personal compass. And just as I’d use a compass on a sailboat to correct my course form time to time, I use it to make sure I’m not veering away from what’s important to me. Let me know what you think about it. Try it for a week or so and let me hear from you.
Create three circles.
In one circle list what you’re deeply passionate about in terms of your life’s purpose. In the second circle list what you’re very good at doing–the talent that seems to be genetically encoded. In the third circle list what you can make a living doing—what makes sense for you economically.
Now, where do these circles intersect? The foundation for a great work life is represented where there is a practical intersection of the three. What I love. What I’m good at. Where others think I add value.
These three circles become your compass. Am I centered where I need to be? Do I need to move up or over?
As you think about what you do these days, how much is outside those three circles? How much can you stop doing?





